When you’re dealing with infidelity

Dealing with infidelity can be a huge challenge for a marriage. Unfortunately, cheating can come at any point in a relationship, whether newlywed or married for years. Sometimes cheating—especially repeated offences—is a sign that your should get out of the marriage. Read about our top reasons for divorce for more information. At the same time, if you know the skills for dealing with infidelity, slip-ups and one-time events can often be repaired and your marriage can bounce back stronger and more prepared for future challenges.

In dealing with infidelity, there are different course of action that can be taken. but most people forget that the most important thing is knowing what NOT to do when you discover his affair, especially the very next hour after the bomb is dropped So before unwanted things happen, let’s focus now on what you should NOT do when dealing with infidelity.


1. Important: Do not make decision to leave or put him out as yet

No, not now. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t eventually choose this, but just don’t do it the very moment you catch him cheating.

It will be easier to deal with infidelity if both parties are still living in the same roof. It’s human nature to wonder what the other party is doing, how they are going, and it may well drive you crazy if you decide to make him leave you right this very moment.

Imagination is wilder than facts – and the last thing you want is to imagine what he’s doing or whether or not the affair continues right now.

Plus, you can even see how he is dealing with infidelity himself (even if he’s the cheater) so you can have a better idea of what future you might have with this guy.

And if you want to try to work things out – it will be much easier when he’s there.

2. Don’t focus on the other woman – you’re just wasting your energy

Most women with imagination will be curious about the other woman (Curious is an understatement). You want your husband to answer all questions that you have about his other woman.

You ask in a rather demanding tone – hysterical demeanor about the other woman. This is just wasting your energy. It is not about who he has an affair with, the other woman is simply playing a role of ‘the other woman’.

Knowing every little details of what your husband has done with the other woman is not going to help you in dealing with infidelity. Calling and threatening the other woman is even worse – trust me this will frustrate or even humiliate yourself in the end.

Also, know that she’s not having a nice life herself – having an affair with a married man is disastrous in itself. If you call her names or attack her with your words your usband/partner may jump to her defense. This will frustrate you even more.

She’s not the issue, she could be anyone. Your husband is THE issue because he is cheating on you.

3. Don’t broadcast his cheating – especially to other men who seems understanding

You don’t want to humiliate yourself even more.

It is true you will definitely need a friend to help you deal with infidelity, but you don’t want to be the subject of ‘hot goss’ around the block.

For More Information Visit: – Dealing With Infidelity


Emotional Affair Statistics

Emotional affairs are relationships formed by individuals who are already in a monogamous relationship (married or long term relationship), but start or maintain another relationship that involves emotional intimacy with a different partner. These new relationships could start out merely as plain friendship, but slowly end up turning into emotional affairs. A relationship can be considered an emotional affair when the details of your conversation are too intimate that it would normally be only appropriate to talk about it with your significant other.

Man with girlfriend while holding hands with another woman

One of the first things you may observe from a cheating spouse having an emotional affair is that they feel or seem distant. They act aloof, don’t look forward to seeing you, or just basically stop caring about anything that happens involving both of you. The closest feeling you get is the one you feel right after a fight, when they give you the could shoulder; but not severe enough to warrant a confrontation about why they are so cold towards you. A cause of an emotionally distant spouse could be having trouble deciding whether or not they want to stay in their current relationship.

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Cheating spouses are common all over the internet

You’re about to learn the most guarded secrets that private investigators use to catch cheating husbands or cheating wives. Whether your partner has just started having an affair, been having an affair for a while, or just ended an affair, it doesn’t matter. I’ll show you how to get the solid evidence you need that will leave no room for excuses or alibis.

Well before you even go any further, is any of these right?

Don't look at her! Handsome young men looking at the women pass

– His sex drive is low…OR extremely high (Not to mention he has new moves)

– Start getting engaged in new activities – without you

– He seems to be daydreaming a lot

– You get prank calls more often

– You just KNOW something is not right…

Cheating spouses are common all over the internet. This is why one of the most recommended ways of catching them is installing either hardware or software key loggers. If you don’t have the spare cash for that a free effective way will be creating bogus profiles; profiles of people that you would expect your spouse to be attracted to. You of all people should know what type of person your spouse would find attractive, so create the bait and then “accidentally” find their profile. Send them personal messages on Face book, MySpace, or the social site of their choice. More often than not a cheater will respond positively. From that point be creative, start flirting with them. If you get the feeling that they are in to you and would go further, test it. Maybe turn the conversation sexual and see how they react. Get their phone numbers. This method has worked for many people whom I’ve helped, and we were lucky(or unlucky) to find out that most of their spouses have secret prepaid cell phones that they use exclusively for “hooking up”. Possibly the best method in this list.

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Cheating Spouse How To Catch

Do you think your spouse is cheating on you? Don’t let him get away with it. Cheating men always leave signs. Here at cheating-spouse-alert.com, we have compiled a list of the most common cheating men signs. Use them to your advantage and don’t let him get away with it!

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Ways to catch a cheating spouse:-

1. Cell Phone Trackers

These are programs which you install on your cell phones and have it collect data for you. That data is then sent to a server via the internet which you can access through your home computer or laptop. After manual installation on your phone, you can then leave these cell phone spies alone and just remotely access the data. Most of these work for all the latest mobile phones and the quality ones are always made to be undetectable.

2. Key logger

Key loggers are devices or software that monitors keystrokes on your computer, which is called keystroke. Key loggers can be useful to you if your suspected cheater is on the computer or laptop a lot. The only downside to this method of catching a spouse is that laptops have no other option other than using software key loggers which you need to install because it wouldn’t make sense to add a hardware key logger onto a laptop.

3. Reverse Phone Lookups

Reverse telephone directory, is a service that lets you track a phone number, be it cell phone or home phone. You can now reverse phone lookup those unknown numbers that keep calling you! The downside is, some people can pay to get removed off of the reverse phone lookup database. Ever wonder how that telemarketer got your phone number? They used the reverse telephone directory.

4. Private investigators

Private eyes are the last thing you should consider if you do not have the cash. They are the most expensive way to catch a cheating spouse, but they are also the most reliable way. All you do is pay, and they will have every tool described here and more to track and document your cheating spouse’s activities.

For More Information Visit: – Catch Cheating Spouse

Find out if Your Husband Is Cheating

If you suspect that your partner is cheating on you, the person you have given so much of yourself to, the person you have loved so unselfishly and sacrificed so much for, the person you stood by when anyone else would have left, then this could be the most important video you will ever watch.

Whether you’re just looking to uncover the truth simply to go forward with your life, or you need proof of cheating & infidelity to win in court, our controversial yet highly effective ebook will guide you every step of the way.Our ‘How to Catch Your Cheating Lover’ ebook will offer you insight to both the physical and the mental side of infidelity. Like why do people cheat? What signs to look out for? And how you can take advantage of your partner’s ego to make them reckless, sloppy and ultimately, get caught!

Young couple in the couch having conflict problem

If you have reasons to suspect that he is cheating—or think you do—then it is time to start looking for the signs that he is being unfaithful. The longer you put off dealing with this devastating situation, the worse you will feel if you find out he has not been honest with you. If you want to know if your husband has been cheating on you, then you should look at what he says and does around you, and pay attention to what has changed. If you want to know whether he is cheating, just follow these steps.

  1. Notice What He Does
  2. Notice His Appearance
  3. Find Out if He’s Cheating

Note the amount of eye contact he gives you. If you used to always look into your eyes when you spoke but now always looks away, he may be doing it out of guilt. Note a lack of affection. If he used to kiss you, hug you, put his arm around you, and let you know how much he cared through his touches but never touches you any more, then something may be up.

Notice if he shows you affection when you are alone, but not when you go out. If he is all over you when you are home but he is distant the second you step out the door, it may be because he is afraid his mistress will catch him with another woman.

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Signs of infidelity – Detect lies through his body language

Lying is one of the top signs of infidelity. Even if lying doesn’t always mean cheating, it is not possible for someone to cheat without lying to his partner.

You are tired of his lies, but he seems to be good at coming up with excuses after excuses to keep you from finding out about his extra activity, but can he hide and fake his body language?

You have probably heard that you should not accuse your spouse of cheating before finding a hard proof evidence. But…

Are you too busy looking for hard proof evidence – NOT paying enough attention to behavioural signs of infidelity?


Ok, here are some actions and movements to watch out for that signal the sign he is lying to you:

1. He maintains eye contact a little too much. Obviously a cheater knows avoiding eye contact can show signs of infidelity – so to counter this he will look and stare at your eyes to fake sincerity. Good thing is he will do this a little too much, because it’s not natural.

2. On the contrary, he may just be an amateur cheater, and will actually avoid eye contact with you.

3. He keeps on touching his nose. Research discovered that when a person tells a lie tissues inside their nose swell (So there are some truths in pinocchio eh?).

4. He touches his earlobes or behind his ear. This is also a body language give away that many are not aware of.

5. He gives too much information when asked a simple question. He would try to make a perfect crime by not leaving holes and gaps in his story – little does he know it is giving away even more signs of infidelity.

6. Repeating your question in his answers may also be a sign. Example: when asked “Are you cheating on me?” he would answer “No I am NOT cheating on you”.

7. He stutters or stumble upon words. He realises when he makes mistake in his story or when his story does not add up before you do – and he will try to cover it up.

8. He is speaking a little faster than normal.

9. He is using a lot of ‘fillers’ such as um, err, ah etc.

10. His cheek turns red.

For More Information Visit: – Dealing With Infidelity

Truth About Emotional Affairs

Emotional affair has been roaming in the society – and it is not as black and white as the physical affair. It used to be that cheating actually meant physical affair – where a spouse is having physical intimacy with someone else other than his/her partner. It was so easy for someone to say ‘But I’ve never done anything with her/him’ to get away with what we now call as emotional cheating.

There is no evidence that can prove what’s on your partner’s mind and whether or not he is having thoughts of different person altogether. This includes thinking of a different partner (a real person) whilst having physical intimacy to the real spouse. However, emotional affair can be defined as cheating occurring through thought or feeling. This can include having intimate conversation on the phone, email or the internet chat room with someone other than your spouse/partner.

Angry woman with man and girlfriend in background at park

Now, although it might only occur on phones or internet, and it might not include any physical intimacy, it can actually be considered as the more dangerous type of cheating. Thoughts largely turn into action, whilst action doesn’t always turn into thoughts. This means, having more emotional thoughts to someone other than your spouse can just turn into something dangerous.

Emotional thoughts can lead easily to physical affair – physical affair does not always lead to emotional cheating. For example, a one night stand will not necessarily be on your thought 24/7 whilst someone you are emotionally cheating with would. When your spouse is emotionally connecting to someone else, your marriage can be in danger as it breaks emotional connection between you and your spouse.

This is not to say that any friendship with the opposite sex can turn into some kind of affair. Healthy friendships should actually add joy to life, and should provide some things that your spouse cannot provide.

For More Information Visit: – Emotional Affair